Portrait of Jim Calloway in his workshop, golden light

In loving memory of

James Arthur “Jim” Calloway

March 14, 1949 to November 2, 2025 · Dayton, Ohio

For thirty-four years he taught Dayton's teenagers to measure twice and cut once. For fifty-two years he loved one woman well. And every Sunday of his adult life, there were pancakes. This page holds the whole of it.

34Years teaching
19Seasons coaching
52Years married
7Grandchildren

Chapter one

His Story

The long version, because Jim never believed the short version of anybody was worth much.

James Arthur Calloway was born on March 14, 1949, in Dayton, Ohio, the second of four children and the only one who could be trusted with his father's tools. His dad, a machinist at Delco, kept a one-car garage workshop on Huffman Avenue, and by the time Jim was ten he could sharpen a chisel, true a board, and, most importantly, his father said, put every single thing back where it belonged. He grew up smelling of sawdust and church suppers, singing in the children's choir at Grace United Methodist and riding his bike to Caesar Creek with a fishing rod balanced across the handlebars.

He met Margaret Ellison at a church picnic in the summer of 1968, when she beat him, fairly, she insists, and he never once disputed it, at horseshoes. He asked her to the county fair that August and carved her a small wooden bird to remember it by. She still has it. They courted through his years at Wright State, where he studied industrial arts education and played exactly one season of intramural baseball before deciding, in his words, that he was “built for the bench and the bleachers, in that order.”

In the fall of 1971, Jim walked into the woodshop at Fairmont High School with a toolbox, a seating chart, and a conviction he never gave up: that a kid who can build something true with their hands will never believe they are worthless. He taught there for thirty-four years. His room, B-114, had sawdust in the heating vents and a line of former students at the door every June. He kept a drawer of confiscated notes he never read, a coffee mug from the class of '88, and a standing rule that nobody, nobody, left his class believing they weren't good at something. They just hadn't found their something yet.

“Jim never built anything that mattered out of wood. He built people. The furniture was just how he got them to sit still long enough.”
Margaret Calloway, his wife of 52 years

Jim and Margaret married on June 9, 1973, and raised three children, Tom, Sarah, and Daniel, in a brick house on Wilmington Pike with a maple tree out front and a workshop out back that gradually annexed most of the garage, half the basement, and one memorable corner of the laundry room. Sunday mornings belonged to pancakes, a recipe he refused to write down for forty years because, he said, “a recipe you have to feel.” Saturday mornings in spring belonged to Little League: nineteen seasons of coaching, hundreds of kids, and a personal tradition of calling every one of his players on their graduation day, wherever life had taken them.

Music ran through all of it. Jim sang baritone in the Grace United Methodist choir for nearly fifty years, back row, hymnal open, famous among the altos for coming in a half-second early on the final amen. In 2003 he towed home a rusted 1967 pickup that Margaret described as “mostly holes,” and over eleven winters, one panel, one gasket, one patient evening at a time, he brought it back to life. The truck's first drive, in the spring of 2014, went exactly one block: to Margaret's favorite bakery and back, because some milestones deserve pie.

Jim retired from teaching in 2005 to a hallway lined with students, and spent his last twenty years the way he'd spent the previous fifty: fixing things for neighbors who'd learned to just leave broken chairs on his porch, teaching grandchildren the difference between a Phillips and a flathead, fishing Caesar Creek at dawn with his friend Ray, and holding Margaret's hand on the porch swing through every season Ohio offered. He died at home on November 2, 2025, with his family around him and his tools put away, every single one, where they belonged.

Jim and Margaret with their three children in the backyard, summer 1994
The Calloways · Wilmington Pike backyard · Summer 1994

Chapter two

Timeline

Seventy-six years, measured in classrooms, ball fields, choir lofts and one very patient truck.

1949

A Dayton boy

James Arthur Calloway is born March 14 at Miami Valley Hospital, second child of Arthur and Ruth Calloway. By age ten he is running his father's garage workshop like a foreman.

1968

Beaten at horseshoes

At a Grace United Methodist church picnic, Margaret Ellison beats Jim at horseshoes. He asks her to the county fair and carves her a small wooden bird. She keeps it for the rest of her life.

1971

Room B-114

Fresh out of Wright State, Jim takes the woodshop job at Fairmont High School. He will keep that same classroom, that same workbench, for thirty-four years.

1973

Jim & Margaret

Married June 9 at Grace United Methodist, with the choir singing and Jim's father giving a toast that quoted both scripture and a torque specification. The marriage lasts fifty-two years.

Jim and Margaret on their wedding day, 1973
1980

Three kids and a maple tree

With Tom (1976), Sarah (1978) and Daniel (1980) all under one roof on Wilmington Pike, the Calloway house becomes the neighborhood's unofficial headquarters, and loudest Sunday breakfast.

1986

Coach Calloway

Jim starts coaching Dayton Little League. Nineteen seasons follow. He never keeps the win column; he keeps the names, and calls every player on graduation day.

Coach Jim Calloway with one of his Little League players, 1986
2003

A rusted promise

Jim tows home a 1967 pickup that Margaret describes as “mostly holes.” The restoration takes eleven winters of patient evenings in the workshop.

Jim beside the restored 1967 pickup
2005

The hallway

Jim retires after thirty-four years of teaching. On his last day, current and former students line the hall from B-114 to the front doors and applaud him out of the building.

2023

Fifty years

Jim and Margaret celebrate their golden anniversary with a porch full of family, a choir serenade, and pancakes, at their request, for dinner.

2025

Remembered always

Jim dies at home on November 2, surrounded by Margaret, their children and grandchildren. His tools are put away, every one where it belongs.

Jim's hands guiding a plane along walnut in his workshop

The workshop

“Measure twice, cut once, then check it again anyway.”

Every student who passed through Room B-114 heard it. Every grandchild who held a saw in the garage on Wilmington Pike heard it. It was never really about lumber. Jim believed most of life's damage was done by people in a hurry, and most of life's repairs by people willing to look one more time. The workshop is quiet now, but the benches, the tools and about four thousand pieces of furniture across Dayton still carry the lesson.

Chapter four

Voices

Some things a photograph can't hold. Press play and hear his remembrance, read aloud the way it was spoken at his service, with the music he would have wanted underneath: soft, and never sad for long.

His Remembrance

A ninety-second narration of Jim's life, his classroom, his ball fields, his truck, and the words Margaret asked to have read aloud.

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The Music

A gentle piano-and-strings loop plays softly beneath the page when you enter with his story. You can turn it on or off at any time, here, or with the Music button at the top of the page.

Sunday Morning, Softly
Background music · plays on a gentle loop

Chapter five

Legacy

The small, specific things that made him him, kept here so the grandkids' grandkids know exactly who they're named after.

His saying

Check it again anyway

“Measure twice, cut once, then check it again anyway.”

Also in rotation: “A dull tool is more dangerous than a sharp one,” and, at every Little League practice, “Nobody ever got worse by being kind out loud.”

From his kitchen

Sunday Pancakes

Two cups flour, a spoon of sugar, baking powder and soda, salt. Buttermilk to “the consistency of slow paint,” one egg, melted butter, and a handful of blueberries when Sarah was home. Rest the batter ten minutes, “batter, like people, does better not rushed.” Griddle at medium, flip once, serve with more butter than the doctor advised and all the family you can fit at the table.

His songs

Always on the record player

  • “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong
  • “Moon River” by Andy Williams
  • “Amazing Grace” by the Grace UMC choir, every Easter
  • “Take Me Out to the Ball Game”, sung to every grandchild
  • “I'll Fly Away”, his request for his own service

Family traditions

How the Calloways do it

  • Sunday pancakes, no exceptions, guests included
  • A graduation-day phone call to every kid he ever coached
  • Opening Day at the ballpark, same seats since 1986
  • One handmade wooden gift per grandchild, every Christmas
  • Porch swing, coffee, no phones, every warm evening

The keepsake

The 1967 Pickup

Bought as rust in 2003, finished in the spring of 2014 after eleven winters of evenings. Deep green, bench seat, and a glove box that holds the map of every fishing trip since 1971, marked in pencil, in Jim's hand.

His faith

Back row, baritone

Fifty years in the choir at Grace United Methodist, a lifetime of ushering, pancake-breakfast flipping for the youth group, and a quiet habit of fixing anything in the church building that squeaked, stuck or sagged, usually before anyone thought to ask.

Chapter six

Memory Wall

Stories from the people who knew him best. Add yours, it will appear here for the family to keep.

Memories shared here are sent to the family first. Once they approve a memory, it appears on this wall for everyone who visits, and it stays here for the family to keep.

Jim and Margaret together on the porch at golden hour

With gratitude

A beautiful life does not disappear. It becomes part of everyone who remembers.

James Arthur “Jim” Calloway · March 14, 1949 to November 2, 2025

Thank you for visiting Jim's page, for the memories above, and for every story still to come. The porch swing is still out. The coffee is still on.

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